There’s difficult people and there’s easy people.  There’s people that will never accept who you are for what you are and there are people that will accept you for who you are and then others who will accept you for who you are and will be less inclined to tell you everything because you may not be ready for it.  There are some things people do that make others feel they aren’t ready for them and things that show they are completely ready for the challenges. Life is Lifestyle. The more input, the more output. The best thing to do is progressively grow.