Desi Exclusives wishes everyone a very Happy New Year.  May 2010 bring happiness and joy to you and your loved ones.

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Why is it that sometimes friends you’ve known for just one or two years can readily share their lives to you and the ones you’ve known for five to ten years still keep distant and are emotionally closeted.  Its not how long you’ve known the person but how well you’ve known the person.  Its the trips you’ve taken with them, the nights you’ve just talked and walked with them and the adventures you’ve had with them that you haven’t done with other friends.  Its amazing how great it is to feel that you can really touch someone and know their souls like no else does.  Some people live through this world without ever having any real true connections.  Some people see the days and never the nights of people like walking zombies.  Its like going to the grave and knowing that you haven’t really felt the scars of your peers. This upcoming year I will learn more about those that choose to come and share what they are of themselves.  I welcome it.  In return, I will be the better person I can to cultivating my relationships with them in 2010.

Desi Exclusives has really come around since inception.  With its rapidly increasing member base and surging popularity, its becoming recognized as the go to place for Desi connections.  Desi Exclusives has connected many people online finding new friends and brand new opportunities.  Its great that people are seeing that its more than just a dating site, but also a networking site.  Desi Dating has been a very popular phrase to look up online and has had many viewers interested in checking out Desi Exclusives.  Fortunately, Desi Exclusives doesn’t give the notion of being a site where marriage or dating is a core requirement.  Sometimes friendship and a good conversation is what some may be looking for.

Boys will be boys. Some will hit golf balls and others will run countries. All have the same thing in common: players.  Some of them get the most georgeous women and fantastic mates to be their wives.  But its never enough for them.  In some cultures, you can even have up to four wives.  In some underground swinging clubs, you can have everyone in the room.  Does Tiger Woods loves his wife?  Yes!! Does he enjoy being a player?  Yes!!  Does he have the instinctive ability to know whats his main squeeze from his cats in the bag?  YES YES!!  Does he have a problem? No!  Does he effectively manage his time with being with his wife and 3 good women on the side instead of 50 women from different cities claiming to be his squeeze of the month? No!!  Woods, Spitzer and Stanford had great wives. (No comments on the other ones listed above).  They have an animal instinct which comes from within.  Its part of being a hunter from the olden days.  Its the craving of desiring more.  Its actually quite an ambitious quality. More like catching fish to feed the family   The problem is when it becomes an all consuming issue.  When work = play.  When this happens, boys will be crazy and live spontaeously for excitement until they find it.  Sex sells!! Sex with people you shouldn’t be having sex with sells even more!!  Sometimes its safe to just put a lid on it, But then all the fun disappears for some.  Thats why the golf course has 18 holes.  After one, there’s another and another and.

For Christmas all I wants is $1,000,000,000. I’ll feel on par then Citibank, Goldman Sacks and Bank of America.  Lol, I’ll actually be satisfied if Obama gives me $1,000.00.   I could use a grand for a couple things.  I could buy myself an Apple laptop, trip to LA or even three or four good pair of shoes.  Whatever it woud’ve been I’m sure it would have helped improve the GDP levels of the economy representing the millions of consumers in this country.  A hundred bucks, I wouldn’t have mind either.  I would’ve probably blown that in a day and a half.  It would’ve easily gone in a night of drinking or date for two.  Fifty bucks is reese pieces…little chump change for the NYC metrocard or something pretty decent to eat a la carte for one in northern jersey or philly.  Obama, I’m sure McCain wouldn’t have given us anything either. But we voted for you for a reason.  We just want hope to see a quick buck.  Where’s my bailout?

Its amazing what people can really do when their into something.  Especially when it comes to a site like desiexclusives.com.  This site attracts people of all ages and different backgrounds.  It really amazes me how people are jumping on this site and getting into the blogs and really hooking up with people on the site.  Desi Exclusives isn’t just bringing desis to the site but literally people of all ethnic backgrounds.  This site really differentiates among other sites in its layout and really stands out. I hope this site continues to really have the positive impact that it shows.

It’s a brand new year.  Brand new opportunities that will present themselves to us. Things coming our way that’ll make things better or worse for us.  But, we have to remember the people who have been us and not hold out on them.  We need to pick up the glass of champagne and cheer amongst our friends celebrating this new year.  It nice when the people who you surround with all year round come together and get together for the new year. It shows initiative that things will continue and for the better.  There’s a deep joy when the room smells like liqour and everyone is hugging and kissing around the room saying happy new years. 

For many of us, this year will be marked with an asterisk on our yet-to-be written biographies.  It is essentially the lost year.  Many of us lost jobs, struggled with the financial consequences and emotional repercussions, and heard similar stories from our friends.

The new year we are about to enter doesn’t bring much tangible promise, other than the simple understanding that things could not possibly get any worse.

Yet the key is, as I said, our biographies have not been written yet.  When all is said and done, the only thing that will matter is the culmination of our years, the sum of our accomplishments.

Those of us with positive spirits, a tireless work ethic, and a knack for innovation will undoubtedly be rewarded.  The key is to look ahead while the others are looking down in despair.   We have plenty of time to re-write the history books, and let the world hear our roar.

This RECESSION is so dirty, so dirty that we’re literally resulting to terms such as underemployment and jobless recovery. What the hell is that?? Is that hope I can believe in.  I have friends that have been unemployed….i mean underemployed for over 20 months……thats relatively a short period of time for some but for others it a long time for those who don’t recognize really how fast time flys ( when your having fun/ or working).   Unemployment is really a JOB because your looking for a JOB with the intent of desiring a JOB that will reward or pay you something JOB worthy.  We all know working at Old Navy doesn’t cut it. Neither does serving Starbucks or even selling shirts at the mens department in the local mall.

What people don’t realize is that unemployment or the state of unemployment is like a wet dream.  When you know that your about to wake up, your hired!!!  Thats anticipation in the hope I believe in!  Unemployment is really Nirvana.  Its a state really of self recognition and self cultivation of learning whats right for you without getting knocked up.  It gives you days, weeks, months, and sometimes for some years to recognize. And once it has been attained of knowing what goals, ideas, and learning is achieved during the unemployment, one will recognize their true meaning.  I feel terribly happy for the 17.2% of unemployed..I mean underemployed for the chance of a lifetime to try and grab the breadcrumbs of life and see that theres more than one way to slice the bread. Sometimes you need to put cheese on it, other times you need to toast it and other times you just have to wipe your ass with it. Out of this lucky group will produce some of the greatest minds of out generation!! With such desire of wanting to learn more of themselves will thus make them more creative and entreprenueral because they want something to live for more on their own conditions.  This is easier than the population who work 40-70 hours a week at jobs that they do not like and can’t have the opportunity to be in this Nirvana state.  Unemployment gives hope to Nirvana. It gives you a chance to break free from the trangessions of crappy jobs and push you in the direction that heart or mind wants to go. 

This will be a bad recession. A horrible one. So horrible. There’s so many laid off people and I hope more will get laid off. I hope it comes like a perfect storm where the unemployment peaks at 10.5%-10.7% government data and really an identification of a 24-25% underemployment.  This next generation will be so great to have so many people in this state of Nirvana that they will break from it and be who they want to be. 

P.S. UNEMPLOYMENT (UNDEREMPLOYMENT) IS A JOB. BUT ITS REALLY MORE THAN THAT…ITS NIRVANA 

So people at work today were talking about the sudden death of actress Brittany Murphy.  One person said these kinds of celebrity deaths are happening because ‘we are getting further away from God’ and ‘we need God back in our schools.’

I’m as American as anyone else, I love this country more than anything, but I don’t share your God.  I am not even sure if I believe in one; if I did I’m not too sure how fond he would be of me.

If religion is indeed a mechanism that helps keep some folks on the straight path and out of trouble, that is fantastic.  However, the idea that religion must be as present in our schools as textbooks is stretching it too far.  Those of you who perhaps live in urban areas and/or appreciate cultural diversity will understand what I’m saying.  We should not need religion to tell us to be respectful of ourselves, others, and our surroundings.  That’s called common sense.  Religion is a whole lot more nuanced than that.

We are all different, yet American.  It is our one common bond that makes this country so great.